I was thinking sometime in the morning about why people take things seriously...... Words within myself went on like this==> If someone "humiliates" us, we take it damn seriously as if our heart has been chopped finely and grinded with chilly and sauce. But the same soul takes "care" shown on us like a old book on the shelf left untouched for quite a long time. The difference between the "perception" of differentiating care and humiliation is so simple that many dont realise. Its just the running number of times you think about them.
Now giving a closer examination will reveal something stupid about human perception of situations incurred to them. Note my words, i had used "incurred" and not "occured".....since "occured" corresponds to something that happens on its own course without anyone pushing it and "incurred" corresponds to something forced to happen. Coming to the point, normally if "someone's" preplanned or unplanned action results in
insult or
humiliation, it makes us sick on feelings or it goes down heavy in our hearts. But the "care" shown by our mother or our loved ones doesn't even gets our attention. The Reason is that
love of a mother or loved ones are daily process which we get easily n without any expectations in return by them.
Now we can synchronise the "old book" as i had compared it to "
care". (i.e)
care is like an old book lying on the shelf because its in our shelf and we can read it anytime. so as the
care shown by our loved ones, they belong and live for us so u can get their
care anytime but the same
humiliation is a one that u experience only on a occasional basis...what i mean is no one gets
humiliated all the time. So the rare process of
humiliation is considered to be more stronger than the soothing pleasent
care.
Take for an instance the Ganguly issue that is lingering all over the media now. The treatment vented out to the prince of kolkata can well be rooted for its cause to 4 or 5 people.
Namely Greg chappel, Kiranmore and the other couple or dozen of people involved in the high profile(so called) selection commitee. But the people who back up ganguly on his elimination and who protest for his inclusion surpasses lakhs or even may touch millions. The whole culcutta stands for him stage protests and rallies for his inclusion. But the "Most succesfull captain" is more focussed on the
humiliation meted out to him by the 4 or 5 selectors rather than cherishing the support he enjoys from the public. Even the media criticises his elimination and supports him. so one would wonder why the hell does
humiliation gets more importance than the overhelming
care shown
to us.
Its all a mind game that is played between something that you cant resist taking to your heart and something that you can accept. Its something between alowing the wound to heal on its course and the rage that is burning for that wound had happened. So an external look on the situation will give us a more stable perception than wondering on "why had it happened?" or "why should it happen?" and that too "why should it happen to me". The verdict is simple!! It happened because it has been meant to happen!!. So why must we pester our feebble weighted grams of brain for this weightless part of daily happenings...
Man!!! why am i typing this unassigned task of assignment that spans five paras and more than thousand words......Now i wonder whether am doin this silly thing out of
humiliation or due to the effect of the
care shown to me. It sucks again to drain my mind for why i did this.....coz it was meant to be done and i had done it....and it is meant to be closed now so i close my account for now.
If u carefully note the above post fully we can see that the word "
humiliation" is used more in number than the word "
care". So doesnt it intuite something in you about human's take on things?
So..... now you dont wonder why r you reading this as it was meant for u to read and u did it.........Feel like kicking me........again if u kick me, it was meant for me to be kicked and i was kicked ....so if blah blah blah...@$&! 0ouch someone kicked me!! R you the one?
